Major needs

Write down the three most important things you need.  Write behind why you have that need (the deeper need behind your need).  Go even deeper and write abou behind that deeper need again why you then have that need (the need behind the need, behind the need).  Reserve time in your diary to investigate for two needs how you can fulfill them in different ways.  Reserve time in your diary to express these two needs to at least two people. (If it is possible, choose those people who can contribute to its fulfillment.)

  • What is very important for you to receive or to give?
  • What is very important for you to discuss?
  • How would you like to be treated or seen?
  • How do you really want people to behave towards you?
  • Which matters would you like to complete?
  • In what way do you want people to interact with you?